Sometimes, lifetimes are chosen to be with friends. And sometimes, Laurel, one friend agrees to be off balance and the other balanced. One teaches stability, the other teaches spontaneity. Win-win, cool-cool.
Gets kind of wonky though, if either starts thinking they're more important to the other, than the other is to them.
You know?
The Universe
Every nut needs a cracker, Laurel, and every cracker needs a nut, metaphorically.