"Happily-ever-after," I'm happy to tell you, Laurel, begins with "happily"... in more ways than one.
So the next time a loved one sets out to find it, maybe have them consider that the trail may turn frosty cold, if it's not set out upon happily.
There, that should get you started. I mean, them.
Tallyho,
The Universe
To be or not to be happy, Laurel, really is the question. As if it needed to be multiple choice.