What if, Laurel, you first got to decide how you'd like to feel - happy or sad, hurt or mad, approving or jealous - and then I had to go out and rearrange all the people and circumstances of your life to make it so?
You'd like that, huh? You'd choose happy, eh?
Done.Yeah, 'mon,
The Universe
Laurel, your feelings are your choice, what manifests thereafter may not be - if you know what I mean.